Last updated: 7/2009

chasing and take control of your own dating life right now. Become a man of real character who knows that truly great women will never fall for "tricks".
I did it, and I have never looked back. Now it's your turn.

Make no mistake: Masters of "outer game" and "pickup lines" are using the EXACT SAME TACTICS ON YOU as they do on women. Are you falling for it?

Right now a critical choice is before you. One that could dramatically affect your future success with women.
You can keep doing what you've always done and continue to be frustrated while precious time ticks away even as you pour money into empty promises.
Or... you can invest the next ten minutes discovering the jealously guarded secret of men who refuse to settle for anything less than absolute fulfillment of their wildest dreams with women.

So what's it going to be?

My sincere hope is that you're ready to step up and hear the message that will likely change your life--for real this time.

"Awesome stuff from Scot - refreshingly direct, to the point, no mumbo-jumbo or sleazy stuff. This is the kind of message that vibes with me."

-- Michael (The Dating Wizard)

So why am I so passionate about what I'm about to share with you, anyway?
Simply put, I was tired of reading the same tired old lines over and over again about "how to handle rejection", "peacocking", "getting laid in ten seconds", "why jerks get women", and my personal least-favorite--"how to date strippers". (Seriously, guys. Are we so brainwashed that we can't even deserve higher-quality women than that in our fantasies?)
In my mind, and maybe in yours also if you share my way of thinking, it is time for something altogether different and decidedly more useful.
It is time for a reference manual on knowing what it takes to recreate ourselves into being the kind of man the truly greatest women on Earth are going to be attracted to--and then going after those women confidently.

In other words, it's high time for a book on how best to prepare ourselves for great relationships instead of settling for abundant mediocrity.
Do you see the difference there? Instead of talking about tricking women into somehow being attracted to an insincere shadow of who we are, we should spend MORE TIME thinking and talking about how we can become MORE ATTRACTIVE.
Let's face it...this book is LONG OVERDUE.
Think about that one...when was the last time you actually found a book on dating and relationships that actually helped YOU become BETTER? Amazing, but true, isn't it? Books like that simply ARE NOT ON THE SHELVES.

"I can't thank you enough for your work. After spending a couple years in this community I finally stumbled across your site, and found the material I had been looking for. You have the integrity, honor, and respect that makes me proud to use your material."

-- Andrew (Indianapolis, IN)

But if you are like me, you already sense that you've just got to BE the BEST MAN POSSIBLE in order to GET the BEST WOMAN POSSIBLE. Otherwise, the only real-world alternative (at best) is to "settle" for a partner who disappoints you--and vice-versa. Millions of people live this kind of unhappy existence, drowning in pornography or soap operas in a weak attempt to vicariously live a dream which they have squandered. Knowing that real fulfillment is possible in a relationship, my passion is to help you make sure you are not one of the untold masses who "settle".
Well, of course... It seems obvious when spelled out in plain English, doesn't it?
And even if you dig yourself out of the "underground", the mainstream "dating advice" out there apparently wants us to focus on how to feel sorry for ourselves and how to excuse people who didn't find us attractive. That's just flat-out not helpful either.

It's time for REAL INFORMATION about how we can
REALLY, TRULY be BETTER MEN for BETTER WOMEN.
Do you want to STAND OUT in the dating world?
DO YOU WANT TO WIN?

In order to get a book on how to make that a REALITY, the truth is that I had to write it myself.
And that's exactly the kind of book "Deserve What You Want" is. As such, it is one of the most revolutionary and groundbreaking books on dating and attraction ever written. I've searched Amazon.com and perused the shelves at Barnes And Noble, and nothing out there even comes close to the concept...the focus of this book is 100% original.

"I?ve read your e-book and am really getting a lot out of your wisdom. It?s impressive how clearly you speak on such a dynamic process as dating and relationships. The sincerity of the 'deserving what you want' concept is refreshing and your knowledge is enlightening."

--Brian (Duluth, GA)

And like I said, it is LONG overdue. I know this because I have LIVED what I have written, and it has PAID OFF in the form of having the opportunity to date as many women as I chose to...ultimately finding, attracting and KEEPING the kind of woman who is of such high-quality that most, if not all people consider it being "too picky" to ever even hope for someone like her.
And no, I'm not wearing "rose colored glasses". Everyone I know tells me that I have found a gem. Right here in the United States. Right here in MY HOME TOWN.

"I think most guys are like me. They start out looking for the gimmicks, opening lines, etc. Then as they get more into it the see that more genuine qualities are needed. So they branch out and seek guys like you that tend to focus more on increasing the quality of the themselves more."

--Michael (United States Armed Services, Currently Deployed In Iraq)

I'm committed to helping you forget about dealing with bad relationships and poisonous women forever. Instead, I want to be part of the solution rather than part the problem. I want to help you DESERVE WHAT YOU WANT.
Here is a partial list of the all-important truths you can expect to find in the book. (Note that much of this information is my VERY BEST MATERIAL...brand new and never before released in newsletters):

How to END the game of "waiting for someone to come along" and / or for the right woman to "fall into your lap". Learn why this POISONOUS mindset is not only a TIME WASTER but DANGEROUS to your long-term HAPPINESS.

The THREE KEY COMPONENTS of deserving what you want...learn these and start attracting the RIGHT kind of women NOW. Never again WONDER why you KEEP ENDING UP with the WRONG ONES...and STOP THE PATTERN IN ITS TRACKS.

The destructive mindset that many single people have (even at the ADVICE OF OTHERS sometimes!) that ABSOLUTELY, POSITIVELY MUST BE ELIMINATED in order to deserve what they want. Chances are YOU are affected. If so...find out how to GET RID OF IT before it KILLS your dating life.

The EXACT REASONS why people end up "settling" for LESS THAN THEY WANT out of relationships. Learn the secret and NEVER make the mistake of letting your DREAM WOMAN slip away--never realizing that he or she was well WITHIN YOUR GRASP.

Verifiable PROOF that most men's #1 FEAR when it comes to attracting women is CATEGORICALLY UNFOUNDED. Learn an ELUSIVE TRUTH here that both MEN and WOMEN should know.

Nothing short of a MIRACLE CURE for those who are hit with the "JBF" ("Just Be Friends") talk WAY TOO OFTEN. Learn how to make sure it NEVER happens TO YOU again. Think of it...no more FINANCIAL and EMOTIONAL investments SQUANDERED. Your HEART and your WALLET will thank you!

Six male characteristics that are WIDELY MISUNDERSTOOD. Unlock the secret, understand the truth regarding why not all MALE BEHAVIOR is BAD BEHAVIOR and DRAMATICALLY increase your dating success TODAY. If more single people read THIS SECTION ALONE the world would be a BETTER PLACE.

A full DOZEN ingenious WAYS to tell if your date is MARRIED. Shock culprits with this information by catching them before you get involved...and save yourself a world of pain.

The top SIX TRAITS of a woman who men WANT to commit to...and why some women experience multiple occasions of men buying engagement rings after only a few dates while other women are stuck with "non-committal" boyfriends. Arm yourself with this CRITICAL KNOWLEDGE and never become TRAPPED with a woman you don't see a future with.

The SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT ATTITUDE a woman must have in order to DESERVE a great man...you've never seen this talked about ANYWHERE ELSE. This simple secret alone is a GUARANTEED LIFE CHANGER for anyone who understands it. Men, look for this in a woman FIRST and EXPONENTIALLY increase your chances at LONG TERM HAPPINESS.

The top SIX CHARACTERISTICS that will ALWAYS KILL a woman's chances of a man committing to her long-term. Make sure you recognize them NOW.

Six "deal breakers" that KILL a man's chances of keeping a woman long term. If you are not getting SECOND DATES, here is the LIKELY REASON.

Why SO FEW people understand what the opposite gender is LOOKING FOR...and the all-too-simple "golden rule" to UNDERSTANDING WHAT THE OPPOSITE SEX WANTS.

The common behavior men and women BOTH exhibit that KILLS ANY CHANCE of long-term happiness. Both sexes understand its effects, yet it is so tantalizing that both sexes CONTINUE ACTING UPON IT. Read this section and ELIMINATE its damaging effects from YOUR LIFE forever.

A trait that PORTENDS CHEATING in the future MORE ACCURATELY than any other. Know this GOLDEN NUGGET of WISDOM now and save yourself a WORLD of HEARTBREAK and HUMILIATION later.

A way of communicating that women should do MORE of, but a man must NEVER, EVER attempt. The POLARIZATION between sexes regarding this issue is SO EXTREME and the respective preferences SO CONSISTENT that Match.com ACTUALLY deleted it from its "Turn Ons" and "Turn Offs".

Secrets to how a man MUST navigate confusing "requirements" on women's online dating profiles...with STUNNINGLY EFFECTIVE results. Without THIS KNOWLEDGE most men are DESTINED to FAILURE online.

The one box no man must EVER check when completing an online profile. Although PAINFULLY TEMPTING to check, doing so will TURN WOMEN'S STOMACHS and DOOM you to failure, no matter what.

Why it is IMPERATIVE to focus on the future AS SOON AS POSSIBLE after a divorce...even if you don't want to get married right away. Knowing this secret NOW is CRITICAL to success in your second marriage.

What the "Divorce 50 / 50 Factor" is, and why it makes dating after divorce so COMPLICATED. Know this secret, see through the SMOKE SCREEN, and improve your dating life IMMEDIATELY.

Key indicators as to why good-looking, educated and otherwise sharp people are UNABLE to attract someone who will marry them, including TWO HUGE REASONS why smart and successful women in particular have it tough when it comes to dating...this will be an LIFE-CHANGING eye-opener for MANY readers.

How a man or woman can build a REAL, ACTUAL HAREM in this culture...and get away with it INDEFINITELY. Learn the INNER WORKINGS of this UNDERGROUND SECRET that "players" and "pick-up artists" don't want other men OR women to know.

The disarmingly simple power ALL MEN have to change the unwritten (and unwanted) "rules" of dating anytime, anyplace and anywhere--to the DELIGHT of women EVERYWHERE.

How to anticipate inappropriate behavior on dates, and HOW TO HANDLE IT when it happens.

How to recognize 10 types of UNACCEPTABLE dating behavior, and--better yet--how to make sure YOU aren't guilty. You may be UNCONSCIOUSLY committing some of the more SUBTLE offenses on the list EVERY TIME you go out on a date...with DISASTROUS results.

FINALLY...a practical definition of what "games" are, and a SIMPLE YARDSTICK by which to measure whether someone is PLAYING THEM or not.

There you have just a small sampling of reasons why "Deserve What You Want" can and will change your life.
On top of all of that,YES...I have also included the single MOST REQUESTED information:

A highly effective example of a man's profile narrative...reprinted verbatim. (Yes, this one is MY VERY OWN...so I know it did its job! How does an 80% response rate sound?)

Normally, the book would sell for $50. And at less than the cost of the TYPICAL FIRST DATE, that would be a bargain. But, as a special offer, I am offering the electronic version to you for a fraction of that. For a limited time you can get your hands on Deserve What You Want for just $27.
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"Scot I have listened to Mystery Method and some other gurus and you are the best I have listened to."

--Elmer (United States Air Force)

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--Mitch (Utah)

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--Brett (California)

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--Russell (Virginia)

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I would like nothing more than to help you take the next giant step toward Deserving What You Want today. Everything I learned in the process of going from sitting alone with my divorced self in my empty house to having a wildly successful dating life--and eventually attracting and keeping the greatest woman I've ever known--is yours.
The information truly is like none other. So my goal is to make it incredibly easy for you to take advantage of this offer.
So with that in mind, I'm going so far as to offer THREE BONUSES to you at no additional charge:

BONUS #1--Scot McKay's Interview With Joseph "Thundercat" Matthews
I recently had the opportunity to interview Seduction Community legend Joseph "Thundercat" Matthews.
What began as a discussion of the state of the Seduction Community today ended up blazing a trail into uncharted territory. In one of the most candid and hard-hitting sequences you have ever heard anywhere, Joseph boldly describes his concept of REAL seduction versus the brand of "snake oil" teachings that in his words are actually damaging to men.
Even further, my guest takes you behind the scenes into the early days of the Seduction Community, and ends by commenting on how learning REAL seduction absolutely, positively benefits both men and women. Don?t miss this sometimes shocking and entirely groundbreaking interview.
Joseph's book The Art Of Approaching can be found at www.deservewhatyouwant.com/thundercat.

BONUS #2--Amy Waterman On Greatness: Attract The Best By Being The Best
It's no secret that we at X & Y Communications have been collaborating a lot with 000Relationships lately. Rest assured there is good reason for that. Simply put, nowhere else have we found such a talented team of dating experts who truly know the meaning of "professionalism".
So it followed logically that we would ask none other than Amy Waterman, 000Relationships' resident dating expert, to sit down for an in-depth discussion with us. The result was over a solid hour of nonstop wisdom on what it takes to deserve a great man or woman...and what to look for in a great partner.
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Emily and I recently recorded seventy-two audio dating tips, all in rapid-fire succession. So what better name for this fast-paced program than "Rapid Fire" ?
We'd tell you to keep a pencil and paper handy, but the information keeps coming at you way too fast for that. A full six dozen segments covering just about every dating issue or scenario you can think of are included.
What's most unique about this program however, besides the lightning-round pace of it, is the simple elegance of getting both the male and female perspective on every topic. Nowhere else have you ever heard so many dating subjects covered this comprehensively.

I can only offer this tremendous package because I know that if I can benefit this much from what I've learned, you ABSOLUTELY can and will too. After dating well over 100 fantastic women in a few short years--and making my own choices about which ones to spend extra time with--I decided last year (2006) to marry the most amazing, beautiful and loving woman I have ever met. She and I are planning a long and blissful life together because we deserve what we want.

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